Is there anything more privileged then setting yourself up as the group that gets to decide what does and does not constitute a privilege? Weird flex straight people, but passing is not all it’s cracked up to be. Living in a cis-het mono/alo world (with a bias towards religion) is fun enough without having to pretend it’s a pleasure to be placed in somebody else’s party. This week Nate Smith and Helen Greene join me on the show to pick apart the supposed privilege of passing and pay penance for our queer cards. Catch the show below and be sure to check back afterwards for some footNOTES!
Dataclysm: Love, Sex, Race, and Identity--What Our Online Lives Tell Us about Our Offline Selves by Christian Rudder
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski
Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex--and How to Get It by Marty Klein
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel
How to Explore Your Queerness When You Have a Straight Partner by Amanda Kohr for VICE
Being Queer in a “Straight” Relationship by Jenny Eastwood for Medium
Identity Politics: Friend or Foe? by Alicia Garza for Othering & Belonging Institute
30 Bisexual Women Discuss Their Long-Term Relationships With Men by Ashley C. Ford for BuzzFeed
The Myth of Straight Passing Privilege by Brittney White for Bi.org
Reasons Why 5 Ambiamorous People Are Functionally Monogamous…At Least For Now from Poly.Land
