Porn IS LIKE Golf

Porn is such a complicated subject. What is it? What should we use it for? What is it doing to us? Turns out a multi-billion dollar industry with strict yet reckless regulation is the type of thing you should occasionally check in on but just how concerned should we be? Well, let me see if I can clear that up.

Understanding Out of Control Sexual Behavior-

Douglas Braun-Harvey on Out of Control Sexual Behaviors & Sex Addiction from Smart Sex, Smart Love with Dr Joe Kort

Out of Control Sexual Behavior - Douglas Braun-Harvey MFT, CGP from It's Not About the Sex

The Misleading “Sexual Addiction” Label by Joe Kort for Psychology Today

Harvey Weinstein Proves Sex Addiction Doesn't Exist by Marty Klein for Psychology Today

The Emperor Has No Clothes: A Review of the ‘Pornography Addiction’ Model from Researchgate

Religious, Moral Beliefs May Exacerbate Concerns About Porn Addiction by Joshua Brubbs from the American Psychological Association

An integrated model to assess and treat compulsive sexual behaviour disorder

Peer Briken, Nat Rev Urol 17, 391–406 (2020)


Insatiable Wives and Podcasters

This week’s guest is very much a favorite of mine, I’ve kinda mentioned his work more than once. In addition to appearing on the original podcast version of the show, Dr. David Ley’s writing on porn, sex addiction and cuckolding are mainstays in our efforts to explore and understand the sexual world in a sex negative society. I’m super excited to have him join us for a conversation about hot wives, cold shoulders and the darkest depths of the internet.

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Modern Day Debate

This was my first ever ‘debate style’ video and my first time stepping out from underneath the ACA umbrella. Not my most polished work but I’m excited to share it with you. Our conversation failed to address some of the sticker points of religious belief- questions of ‘why’ and ‘for whom’ got swept aside as we considered the more general repercussions of the christian faith on our sex lives. Hope I was able to offer some insight but I’d love to hear your take. Check it out below.

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