Big Beautiful World

Porn, huh?

I was once told that there is one sin that always goes alongside porn- masturbation (*shiver*) . Fast forward a couple of degrees, countless conversations with clients, co-hosts and guests on SecX and uh, a fair amount of personal research and turns out there is just so, so much more to porn. Catch my conversation with Laura and Sinn below and be sure to check back afterwards for some footNOTES!

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LESBIAN PORN!!! (But like, for actual lesbians)

This PRIDE month spare a thought for all the hot hot hot girl on girl action brought to you by straight performers and male photographers. The sexualization and ultimate fetishization of lesbians is nothing new but when LESBIAN is one of the most searched key words of all time it might merit a moment of contemplation- why are men driven to lesbian content? What does the male gaze mean for these performers and lesbian identities? And what the hell is a horny lesbian actually supposed to jerk off to, I mean really? Fan Favorite and adult entrepreneur Amberly Rothfield returns to introduce me to adult performer and producer Sinn Sage for a devilish exploration of lady like erotica.

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Porn IS LIKE Golf

Porn is such a complicated subject. What is it? What should we use it for? What is it doing to us? Turns out a multi-billion dollar industry with strict yet reckless regulation is the type of thing you should occasionally check in on but just how concerned should we be? Well, let me see if I can clear that up.

Understanding Out of Control Sexual Behavior-

Douglas Braun-Harvey on Out of Control Sexual Behaviors & Sex Addiction from Smart Sex, Smart Love with Dr Joe Kort

Out of Control Sexual Behavior - Douglas Braun-Harvey MFT, CGP from It's Not About the Sex

The Misleading “Sexual Addiction” Label by Joe Kort for Psychology Today

Harvey Weinstein Proves Sex Addiction Doesn't Exist by Marty Klein for Psychology Today

The Emperor Has No Clothes: A Review of the ‘Pornography Addiction’ Model from Researchgate

Religious, Moral Beliefs May Exacerbate Concerns About Porn Addiction by Joshua Brubbs from the American Psychological Association

An integrated model to assess and treat compulsive sexual behaviour disorder

Peer Briken, Nat Rev Urol 17, 391–406 (2020)


Modern Day Debate

This was my first ever ‘debate style’ video and my first time stepping out from underneath the ACA umbrella. Not my most polished work but I’m excited to share it with you. Our conversation failed to address some of the sticker points of religious belief- questions of ‘why’ and ‘for whom’ got swept aside as we considered the more general repercussions of the christian faith on our sex lives. Hope I was able to offer some insight but I’d love to hear your take. Check it out below.

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